How to give a woman a sincere compliment!

When a women tries on a new dress and asks a man, " How does it look? " she usually receives a simple response like " good " or " fine " , which does not score any points. To score good points a man needs to respond the same way a women would, by giving details.

Some men cringe at the thought of responding in detail, but if you are prepared to try it, you will score big points with most women.

For example, if he said, " Wow! Great choice! Turn around, let me see the back. That color really suits you! The cut flatters your figure. Those earrings match your outfit perfectly, you look wonderful, " most women would be extremely impressed.

sangat comel!

To Mr Boyfriend..

I request you to kindly respond within 2 days of receiving this letter.. hehe! ye kan bebee ;P

How to get a man to listen

Make a time, give him an agenda, announce a time limit, and tell him u don't want solutions or plans of action. Say, "i'd like to talk with u about my day.Would after dinner ok? I don't need any solutions to problems.I'd just like u to listen". Most men will agree to a request like this because it has a time, a place and objective. All the things that appeal to the male brain. And he is not expected to do any work.

cinta hati

is it true bee? ;P

Why men offer solutions

Men have logical, problem solving minds. When a man enters a conference room or restaurant for the first time, he looks around and sees things that need fixing, pictures that need straightening, and better ways of laying out the room. His brain is a problem solving machine that never takes a holiday. Even if he was on his deathbed in a hospital, he'd be thinking of better way to arrange the ward to take advantage of the natural light and country views.

When a women talks about her problems, a man continually interrupts her and offer solutions.He can't help himself because his brain is programmed to do this. He thinks she will feel much better when she has a solution.She only wants to talk and ignores his solutions.This makes him feel incompetent and a failure.Women don't want solutions, they just want to talk about things and have someone listen.

Talking about her problem is how a woman gets relief from stress.
But she wants to be heard, not fixed.